I love Wednesdays. I'm off midweek, and I feel like I can breathe....ahhhh. Seriously, raising a toddler all by myself requires a midweek breath, and I love it.

I'm starting to come out of artistic hibernation which is exciting. I've started revisiting the work I left 2 years ago on my mommy hiatus. My social experiments with audiences, "reality theater" if you will. So I've decided to go back into experimenting, which is great because it can remain low key as say opposed to acting. Yes Austin pedestrians, stay tuned for some unexpected things coming your way.

I thoroughly enjoyed JLars 30th - she was too cute with a grin on her face all night shaking her hips. And I found some photos from when we first moved in together like 8 or 9 years ago and intend to scan them soon!

Life is good here, weather is beautiful, birds are singing out my window. Happy Wednesday!

my Little Bird and me. Feb 15th 2009. 

Embracing my smile lines...

Today is my birthday. My thirtieth birthday to be exact.  A milestone in a young chickens life! When I came home from work last night I found a gift under one of my plants in the living room. It was a big birthday bag with Little Birds name scratched out and mine written in. I opened it with her this morning. She gave me a necklace from her dress up box (its cute too, very 80s retro chic) and a sidewalk-chalk book one of my friends gave her for her birthday a few years ago. Her dad was with her last night, and when I came home and saw the gift I asked if he helped her or reminded her. He had nothing to do with it, didn't even talk to her about it. It warms my heart beyond measure that she remembered it was my birthday and that she found and wrapped and set out the present all on her own. So sweet... To counter that sweetness this morning she has been grumpy and whiny because I am not having a birthday party that she is invited to... I feel bad, I am having a late night dance party tonight with my friends, and she will not be there. As much as her pouting was annoying this morning it also warms my heart that she wanted to be in on the celebration! I told her that she and her friend Lou and I would all have a special birthday dinner tomorrow night instead. She didn't buy it, she wants a party! Ha! She IS my daughter! haha! 

The days leading up to this birthday I have felt a little melancholy. Leaving my twenties... These markers in a persons life allow one to look back and reflect. I look back on the last decade and roll my eyes at some things I did... smile and laugh at other things... feel proud about some things... even though a great many of my friends are older than me, and just laugh patronizingly at my "turning 30 depression" it IS a sign of a change, a shift, in life. I know that I will look back on my thirties in a completely different way than I look back on my twenties... I know that this decade holds a completely new set of experiences. The days leading up have been nostalgic. I have also had a lot of sadness thinking about how my aging also ages my parents and my Little Bird. I think about how I am not ready for my parents to be elderly. I am not ready for that Little Bird to stop being so little.. and the last few days I have been mourning that. BUT I woke up this morning feeling excited and invigorated. I look at today and the next ten years as being full of possibilities, full of opportunity! I read a book a few years ago that said you fall down and mess up a lot in your twenties. You keep falling down but a little less in your thirties, and you finally start to get it right at 40, and in your 50s you are golden. I look forward to falling down less, and perhaps falling down more gracefully. I look forward to more birthday mornings with my Little Bird and watching her get older and wiser with each year. I am embracing my smile lines! Happy birthday to me.

VDay Spectacular Celebrations. Happy New Year Again.

Well this year was my best Vday yet. Afternoon I spent it with my mama friends (Z with his baby friends). Then in the evening Jlar and James came over for a super yummy dinner filled with wine, tea, and Dracula vs Billy the Kid. Classic.

Last Weds I weaned Z. I'd been having midweek meltdowns for the past 2 or so weeks and realized I needed a big change in my life. As in detoxify my body and get back to that hot bod I had pre-baby. That kinda change. Then maybe I'll get to go on a date. Maybe my flirtations will turn into more than just a flirtation! Maybe just maybe I"ll finally have a sexual partner that's NOT my ex. No, that's not a maybe that's a YES I CAN!

I just hope my breasts remain somewhat perky. They were always big to begin with, but post-weaning is kinda of like no mans land, y'know? They're going to take their own life... Part of me thinks I should pump every other day to keep them full, lol.

So I'm on day 2 of my detox and feeling extremely energized. Wish me luck!